You will not find it difficult to agree with me that there are people in this life that actually make life miserable both for themselves and for others around them. Difficult people are everywhere and most times they try to dominate and control you. Think of yourself as the wife of the house, your husband is proving […]
A Reflection on Disease Imagine going back in time to your great-grandparents and you are having a conversation with them. They ask you to tell them about your modern time. And you start by telling them how technology has been of benefit to man. You tell them technology has come to our aid in commercial agriculture […]
The Ego in Relationship II You approached your relationship not with the intent of sharing love but with the intent to win affection and avoid loneliness. With the fear of being alone, you approached her for a relationship. In relationship with her, you will keep dancing on the edge of loneliness, What if she leaves me? So you […]
Transcend Your Mind Many thoughts arise without you even knowing it. You usually end up identifying with these thoughts and that defines your experience. So you have many worries, many troubles which do not seem to be going away. Even though you are not conscious of your identification with your thoughts, you still suffer the consequences. Say […]
Thinking as a Tool A tool serves a purpose. You pick a hammer when you want to hit a nail into the wall. After nailing, the proper thing to do is to put down the hammer. What will you say about the person who after nailing carries the hammer about without dropping it. That would be insane. […]
Responsibility: The Antidote To Meaninglessness As a human being you have to take care of yourself. This means you have to work. There is you this moment so you want things to be good for you now. There is you tomorrow and you also want things to be good for you then. And there is you next […]
Two Simple But Powerful Questions That Can Transform Your Life Two Simple But Powerful Questions That Can Transform Your Life, Are you unhappy? Are you miserable? Do you sometimes find yourself thinking about how messed up your life is? There are two questions I strongly recommend you ask yourself when you are alone. The first is: “Is […]