Who am I? I was close to three decades old on planet Earth when I first asked the question, Who am I? I gave myself different kinds of answers at different times of my life that were ultimately unsatisfactory because they were not true. But I felt I should know who I am. So I identified with my own answer. I thought I knew who I am then. As time went on it became increasingly clear to me, I do not know who I am. If your answer to Who I am? is I am Chukwuma, or I am Bukola, then you have identified with your name. Are you really…