Most Nigerian girls are practicing wifely functions. When you visit the boys hostel, you would be disappointed to find out that most girls go in to live with a course mate. Her lover gives her the popular compliment `you look sexy my girl and she would gladly open her mouth with a smile and say; thank you honey`.
A 300 level student whose (GPA) is barely up to 1.76 is her lover. And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. The girl goes in to live with him in order to prepare along.
What a world! Some girls suddenly lose their senses when they immediately gain admission. Some of them have no more sense of caution, honor, and dignity.
They change their wardrobe and acquire new sets of makeups just to look `campussy` and sexy enough for the guys, while their parents are at home suffering and striving hard just to see them through in paying their school fees. Some of them, their parents borrow money to make sure their child is comfortable in school. Then they would go to school and start misbehaving. They would start sleeping around with little cheap boys (laughs) can you imagine, guys who collect pocket money from their uncles. Dirty boys who most at times affected with sexually transmitted diseases.
Ladies, please remember that you were sent to school to obtain a degree, not a disease. This place is called a school, school not sex!. You are on campus to receive education and not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pencil not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up ladies! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the `best couple award`
You look for a boy you are more intelligent than. You give your virginity to a boy who will definitely leave you after school. You play a wifely role to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh! You have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can`t you see you are being foolish and stupid? I ask again.
You pass through the fears of unwanted pregnancy but you still open your legs to a coward who cannot stand before your father. And you eventually get pregnant; he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame and disgrace you are to your family and society at large. You may master the use of condoms but you can`t master the punishment of your conscience.
Do you know you are bringing shame to your family? Do you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent? I asked my roommate why she is living with her classmate (a boy) and she replied; Dear, I don`t sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him, what impunity!
That`s classified harlotry. And don`t you know that sleeping with a man without your father`s blessing, is bringing a curse to your future? What happened to your cultural values? Somewhere in your heart, you know he would use and dump you, so why are you setting up yourself for a heartbreak?
Please remember that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would to her husband on their wedding night is the gift of her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple award of the year on campus. The other gifts for the rest of her life are her care and character, not her curves and complexion. Real men know this; so, get it screwed in.
Those treacherous and naughty boys will call you sexy and you would answer, oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile, they would ask you out and you would oblige, Oh, You are indeed a mistake. I am not saying that you should be rude or never live a social life but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. "Is my boyfriend adding or impacting anything in me nor my body? Is he really serious he loves me?" If yes that means he should be ready to wait until your wedding night; because the love they say love is patient. If it`s a man who loves and values you, he would wait. If not babe let him walk away from your life because they don`t add any value to your life.
I want to turn your attention back to your books. You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs of yours and give more attention to your books. You are not in school for cat- walking show; you are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I write this article with love and pain in my heart at the same time and that`s why I am sounding strict. I know of three girls that have been living with their boyfriend and can`t even count the number of times they had abortions for the same boy which is now like a normal thing to them, the last one, one of them did almost took her life and it made her bleed for 4 months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.
As a matter of fact, one of them has damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advice you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you if you are in this category of people I talked about, then repent and do the right thing because you never know what a simple mistake or action can lead to, throughout your life.
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